My boyfriend and I have been going out now for a year, yet his ex is still in the picture! At the beginning of our relationship we had started going out, but she told him she still had feelings for him, and he wasn’t sure what his feelings were about her. So I told him that he should figure it out so he didn’t have any regrets and that I’d still be here for him. A month went by, it didn’t work out, she decided that they should see other people. My boyfriend and I got back together and everything was good for 6 months or so and she thrusted her way back into my life.
His ex started working at hooters, and had just broken up with the 3rd guy she’d been with since deciding they should see other people. She said she missed talking to him and that they should catch up. Fine whatever, talkings fine. Now more recently she’s been hinting that she wants him to visit her at work, that he should come in for dinner sometime, and hey I should come along so she can meet me!
Besides the fact that he lives two hours away from me so I don’t see him that often, except for when we’re at school, she wants him to come to her workplace? Where it’s commonplace to flirt and hit on your customers, and now she wants him to bring me? And it’s not like she doesn’t have a new boyfriend of her own, sure he’s older and currently in jail for something or another, but it’s not my fault she’s bad at pickign them! So how do i get her to leave mine alone? And just let us have a relationship without her butting her way in all the time?
Probably doesn’t help either that her boobs are definitally bigger then mine, and found out inadverdently from my boyfriend that she had been making fun of me back when we first started going out because her boobs were bigger then mine and what a disappointment it must be *sigh*
Shouldn’t your boyfriend, if he’s ‘into’ you, be telling her to leave the two of you alone? He obviously likes the attention and likes her being in the picture. Give him an ultimatum – Stop contact with her or he loses you. Simple. Then you will find out his true feelings for you