She is able to manipulate the numbers because she does the payroll, then gets cash payment on the side. This truth is easy to figure out. Her rent alone is $1700 but claims to make $1600 a month income.Would I get anywhere in a CA court or am I stuck being taken advantage of?

Jeez. They are YOUR children. I am sure the amount of money you pay in child support cannot pay her rent, utilities, food, etc. What kind of man desires to short change his kids? You should be glad she can provide them with a decent place to live. Next time lower your payments to zero by using a condom.

My ex works at Radioshack… I’m sure he’s been into my email account, I KNOW he’s gotten into my facebook… I’m not sure if he has access to my text message history from where he’s sitting. I know he can pull up my account information, at least know as much about my att account as I do from the internet. But is that something he is able to do, legal or not?

No. Text message content is not available, except to the account holder or someone with a subpoena.

My ex work colleague recently lodged a grievance at work over her treatment throughout her employment. She had to state situations and hand them to the manager beforehand.
At the grievance meeting he has blamed everything on me, which is a total lie which I can prove. The management have no people skills whatsoever which is the main reason I resigned over a year ago. Surely he cannot do this ? Any advice?

Your employer is trying to shed blame, obviously. It will not work, because the employer is responsible for any actions of his employees (including you).

In any event, this doesn’t affect YOU at all, nothing that happens in this grievance process has any impact on you, you cannot be held liable. If you want to help your co-worker, you could perhaps try agreeing to testify, but it’s not necessary, and arguably it’s not useful.

My boyfriend and I have been going out now for a year, yet his ex is still in the picture! At the beginning of our relationship we had started going out, but she told him she still had feelings for him, and he wasn’t sure what his feelings were about her. So I told him that he should figure it out so he didn’t have any regrets and that I’d still be here for him. A month went by, it didn’t work out, she decided that they should see other people. My boyfriend and I got back together and everything was good for 6 months or so and she thrusted her way back into my life.
His ex started working at hooters, and had just broken up with the 3rd guy she’d been with since deciding they should see other people. She said she missed talking to him and that they should catch up. Fine whatever, talkings fine. Now more recently she’s been hinting that she wants him to visit her at work, that he should come in for dinner sometime, and hey I should come along so she can meet me!

Besides the fact that he lives two hours away from me so I don’t see him that often, except for when we’re at school, she wants him to come to her workplace? Where it’s commonplace to flirt and hit on your customers, and now she wants him to bring me? And it’s not like she doesn’t have a new boyfriend of her own, sure he’s older and currently in jail for something or another, but it’s not my fault she’s bad at pickign them! So how do i get her to leave mine alone? And just let us have a relationship without her butting her way in all the time?

Probably doesn’t help either that her boobs are definitally bigger then mine, and found out inadverdently from my boyfriend that she had been making fun of me back when we first started going out because her boobs were bigger then mine and what a disappointment it must be *sigh*

Shouldn’t your boyfriend, if he’s ‘into’ you, be telling her to leave the two of you alone? He obviously likes the attention and likes her being in the picture. Give him an ultimatum – Stop contact with her or he loses you. Simple. Then you will find out his true feelings for you

I already have AVG free and works fine. Why do I keep receiving pop-ups/ windows, telling me to get internet exp. 8 and AVG for 25% off?

AVG is free with ads. Not bad ads as such things go, but you will be invited every now and then to purchase a more advanced version. For AVG it’s usually their Internet Security package.

Just say no thank you – or Hide the invitation.

I ex boyfriend works with me. It has been over 8 months since we broke up. He was basically cheating but as per him we were on a break. For the past few months, he has hurt me a lot cause he sits besides me and talks to her all day and goes to meet her. He laughs so loud and shows me that he is happy – and that hurts. Lately, i feel i have moved on too, and i dont give a damn, but i have noticed that he has reduced that calls, and i have caught him look at me. I know he loves this girl a lot and i too dnt wnt him back, but do you think that he feels jealous now?? is he curious to know what is happening with me???

He is doing all of this to get you jealous…do this in return:

Be positive.
Ignore him.
Laugh and always smile.
DO NOT look at him.

From past evidence I have noticed that when you show Apathy (not showing much interest in the person) works or has made them want you back. I just wanted others opinions??

I agree. It seems that when you want them, they don’t want you. But when you don’t want them, they want you! It’s annoying.

I need to write an essay on a piece of work that inspired my life. It can be a book, play, painting etc. Any one have any suggestions?

I don’t know what’s inspired YOUR LIFE but this book is great: The Last Lecture by Randy Pausch

tell her the truth…so she will know what really happend and we both should desrve no to date him either. He never told this girl about me, and never said he had a gf.

the other story, we were together for three months
now I really really miss him and i tried to convince that i like him so much and i wil do anything to get him back

pretty much he told me that our relationship isnt in the same level

Let it go. You said your ex – so why would you be contacting another girl about him. Really you don’t want her to have him because you don’t have him. Grow up!

I know this is a hard one, but where could I begin to meet this kind of guy?

so if a guy is healthy, honest, hardworking and cares for you but he was a salesman or something

you’d reject him?

i hope you enjoy your life with mr perfect